The Rebuild Podcast

Friday, June 13, 2025

Diving Deep into Titus: Order and Godliness in the Local Church


Introduction

Ever Feel Like Your Church (Or Life) Is a Hot Mess?

Let’s be real—life gets chaotic. Work piles up, relationships get messy, and sometimes, even church feels more like a disorganized committee meeting than a Spirit-filled family. Deadlines loom over us, bills stack up, and kids need constant attention and guidance. Balancing these demands, along with maintaining a healthy lifestyle and finding time for personal growth, can feel overwhelming. Amidst this chaos, it's easy to lose sight of spiritual priorities and the sense of community that church is meant to provide.

Now imagine you’re Titus, a young pastor left on the island of Crete to lead a bunch of new believers who literally had a reputation for being liars, lazy gluttons (Titus 1:12), and all-around troublemakers. The people of Crete had a notorious reputation in the ancient world for their moral and ethical shortcomings. Known for their deceptive and self-indulgent behavior, they were often described as being difficult to manage and lacking in discipline. This reputation was so widespread that even their own poets remarked on their propensity for falsehoods and indulgence, making Titus's mission to instill order and godliness a formidable challenge. Oh, and false teachers were creeping in, telling people they had to follow a bunch of extra rules to be real Christians.

Enter the Apostle Paul—the spiritual father-figure who’s been through everything—shipwrecks, beatings, prison—and he shoots Titus this short but power-packed letter saying:

"Here’s how we fix this mess: strong leadership, sound teaching, and a church that actually lives like it believes the Gospel."

And guess what? This letter is exactly what we need today. In today's chaotic world, where life often feels disorganized and overwhelming, Paul's letter to Titus serves as a timeless guide. It emphasizes the importance of strong leadership, sound teaching, and living out the Gospel to establish order and godliness in both personal and communal life. By applying these principles, we can address modern challenges and rediscover the sense of community and spiritual priorities that church is meant to provide.

I. Setting the Historical Stage: Why Crete Needed This Letter

1. The Wild, Wild World of Crete

Crete wasn’t just another Mediterranean vacation spot—it was infamous. Even one of their own poets, Epimenides, called them "always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons" (Titus 1:12). During the first century, Crete was a hub of cultural and religious diversity, influenced by various civilizations that had passed through the island. It was a strategic location for trade and travel, contributing to its reputation for moral laxity and widespread corruption. This environment made it a challenging yet crucial mission field for establishing early Christian communities.

  • Culture: A mix of Greek philosophy, Roman rule, and pagan religions. The Greek influence was evident in the emphasis on philosophy and intellectual discourse, while Roman rule brought a structured legal system and governance. Pagan religions added a layer of complexity with their rituals and deities, leading to a diverse and, at times, conflicting set of beliefs and practices. This blend of cultural elements created a unique backdrop for the spread of Christianity, as Paul and Titus navigated the challenges of preaching and establishing order in such a multifaceted society.
  • Religion: Syncretism (mixing beliefs) was common—some claimed to follow Jesus but still dabbled in myths and Jewish legalism (Titus 1:14; 3:9). Syncretism in Crete during the time of Paul's letter to Titus was a significant challenge for early Christians. Many inhabitants combined elements of Christianity with local pagan practices, leading to a diluted faith that often contradicted core Christian teachings. This mixture of beliefs made it difficult for new converts to fully commit to Christian principles, as they were torn between adhering to the teachings of Jesus and maintaining traditional customs that were deeply ingrained in their culture.
  • Moral Climate: Corruption was rampant. Sound familiar? The moral climate in Crete, with its rampant corruption, posed a daunting obstacle for the early Christian church as it sought to establish a community grounded in integrity and godliness. This pervasive dishonesty and moral decay are strikingly similar to challenges faced in today's society, where ethical breaches and corruption continue to undermine trust in institutions and leaders. Just as Paul and Titus worked to instill values of truthfulness and morality in Cretan believers, modern communities are called to uphold these principles in the face of contemporary moral and ethical dilemmas.

2. Meet Titus: Paul’s Go-To Problem Solver

Titus wasn’t just some random guy—he was Paul’s trusted mentee:

  • A Greek convert (Galatians 2:3), proving the Gospel was for everyone, not just Jews.

Titus's conversion to Christianity marked a significant moment in the early church, highlighting the inclusive nature of the Gospel message. As a Greek convert, Titus exemplified the breaking down of barriers between Jews and Gentiles, as referenced in Galatians 2:3, where Paul notes that Titus was not compelled to be circumcised, despite being a Greek. This decision underscored the acceptance of Gentiles into the Christian faith without the need to adhere to Jewish customs, reinforcing the universality of the Gospel.

  • Handled tough assignments (like the messy Corinthian church—2 Corinthians 8:6, 16-17).

Titus faced significant challenges in his assignments, particularly with the Corinthian church, known for its internal conflicts and moral issues. Navigating these turbulent waters required diplomatic skill and unwavering dedication to Paul's teachings. Titus had to manage disputes, encourage unity, and uphold the integrity of the faith amidst a congregation struggling with division and ethical lapses.

  • Now, he’s in Crete, tasked with setting things in order (Titus 1:5).

Establishing order in Crete was crucial for fostering a stable and thriving Christian community. With the island's reputation for moral decay and dishonesty, setting a strong foundation of leadership and ethical standards was essential to counteract these negative influences. By appointing elders and creating a structured community, Titus could help guide the Cretan believers toward a life of integrity, ensuring the longevity and growth of the church amidst a challenging environment.

3. Paul’s Situation: Writing from Freedom… Before Prison (Again)

Scholars think Paul wrote this after his first Roman imprisonment (Acts 28), possibly around AD 62-64. He was traveling, preaching, and likely knew his time was short (he’d be arrested again and executed under Nero). During this period, Paul was actively engaged in his missionary journeys, spreading the Gospel across various regions. Despite being temporarily free, he was aware of the looming threat of further persecution under Emperor Nero's regime. This sense of urgency drove Paul to write letters and strengthen the early Christian communities, knowing that his influence might soon be curtailed by another imprisonment.

So this letter? Urgent. Direct. No fluff. Paul's concerns about the Cretan believers centered on their reputation for dishonesty and moral laxity, which posed a significant threat to the fledgling church's integrity. He was worried that these negative traits could hinder the spread of the Gospel and undermine the community's spiritual health. Therefore, Paul emphasized the need for strong leadership and sound doctrine to guide the Cretans towards a more virtuous and faithful life.


II. Unpacking the Core Message: What’s Titus Really About?

Paul’s message to Titus boils down to three big themes:

1. "Appoint Leaders Who Aren’t Hot Messes" (Titus 1:5-9)

Crete needed real leadership, so Paul gives a checklist for elders:

✔ Above reproach (not perfect, but not a scandal waiting to happen)

Being above reproach is crucial for leaders as it establishes their credibility and earns the trust of the congregation. It ensures that leaders serve as positive role models, embodying the values and principles they preach. Additionally, it helps prevent scandals that could undermine the church's mission and cause division within the community.

✔ Faithful in marriage & family (if applicable)

Family life plays a significant role in shaping a leader’s character and integrity. A leader who is faithful in marriage and manages their household well demonstrates the ability to maintain healthy relationships and resolve conflicts. This stability at home reflects their capability to lead and nurture a harmonious church environment.

✔ Hospitable, self-controlled, upright

Ideally, leaders should interact graciously with others, and a hospitable leader fosters a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere within the church. Self-control, on the other hand, allows leaders to manage their emotions and reactions, ensuring they make thoughtful and balanced decisions. Uprightness in conduct reinforces their moral authority, inspiring trust and cooperation among the congregation and encouraging a culture of integrity and accountability.

✔ Able to teach AND correct false doctrine

Addressing false teaching and correcting false doctrine are fundamental to maintaining the theological integrity of the church. When leaders are able to effectively communicate sound doctrine, they build a foundation of trust and understanding within the community. Correcting false teachings not only protects the congregation from potential harm but also reinforces the church's commitment to truth, fostering a sense of security and confidence among its members.

Why? Because bad leadership = chaos. (Ever seen a church split over drama? Yeah.)

Good leadership is essential in preventing church divisions by promoting unity and understanding among congregation members. By maintaining clear and open communication, leaders can address potential conflicts early and mediate disagreements before they escalate. Strong leaders also set a positive example by embodying the church's values, encouraging members to follow suit and work towards common goals, ultimately fostering a cohesive and harmonious church community."

2. "Sound Doctrine Leads to Sound Living" (Titus 2:1-15)

Paul hammers this: What you believe directly affects how you live.

Our beliefs serve as the foundation for our actions and decisions, influencing our daily behaviors and interactions. When individuals hold strong, positive beliefs, it often manifests in living a life aligned with those values, promoting ethical behavior and personal growth. Conversely, misguided beliefs can lead to negative behaviors and decisions, highlighting the importance of sound doctrine in guiding individuals towards a fulfilling and upright life.

      • Older men: Be sober, dignified, full of faith.

Older men are encouraged to lead by example, demonstrating sobriety in their actions and decisions, which reflects a clear and focused mind. By being dignified, they command respect and inspire others to adopt a similar demeanor, fostering an environment of mutual admiration and reverence. Being full of faith means they remain steadfast in their beliefs, providing a pillar of strength and stability for the younger generations to emulate, thereby nurturing a community grounded in unwavering commitment and trust.

      • Older women: Mentor younger women—not in gossip, but in love, purity, and wisdom.

Older women are called to be role models, offering guidance and support to the younger women in the community. By mentoring with love, they create a nurturing environment where younger women feel valued and understood. Encouraging purity and wisdom, older women help instill strong moral values and practical life skills, empowering the next generation to lead lives of integrity and purpose.

      • Young men: Self-control. (A radical idea in a culture of excess.)

Young men are encouraged to practice self-control, a virtue that stands in stark contrast to the prevailing culture of indulgence and instant gratification. By exercising self-discipline, they learn to make thoughtful and deliberate choices, avoiding impulsive actions that could lead to negative consequences. This focus on self-control not only aids in personal development but also sets a powerful example for their peers, demonstrating that true strength comes from mastering one's desires and maintaining a balanced, purposeful life.

      • Slaves (employees today): Work with integrity, not just when the boss is watching.

Employees are encouraged to embody integrity in their work ethic, maintaining high standards even when not under direct supervision. This approach fosters a sense of personal accountability and pride in one’s work, contributing to a trustworthy and reliable work environment. By consistently demonstrating honesty and dedication, employees not only enhance their own reputation but also contribute to the overall success and morale of the organization.

The punchline? "The grace of God… teaches us to say ‘NO’ to ungodliness" (Titus 2:11-12). This verse encapsulates the transformative power of divine grace in guiding individuals toward righteous living. By teaching believers to reject ungodliness, Paul's message to Titus underscores the importance of aligning one's actions with spiritual values, fostering a community grounded in ethical behavior and moral integrity. This emphasis on grace as a driving force for change encourages believers to live lives that reflect their faith, thereby strengthening the collective character of the Christian community.

3. "The Gospel Changes Everything" (Titus 3:3-8)

Paul doesn’t just give rules—he reminds them why it matters:

"For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray… But when the goodness and loving kindness of God appeared, He saved us… by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit." (Titus 3:3-5)

Grace isn’t just forgiveness—it’s power to live differently. Regeneration, as Paul describes, signifies a profound transformation of the individual through the work of the Holy Spirit. It represents a rebirth, enabling believers to break free from their past behaviors and embrace a new life guided by divine principles. This renewal empowers them to live in accordance with God's will, reflecting His goodness and love in their daily actions, thus highlighting the life-changing impact of the Gospel.


III. Bridging the Gap: What Does This Mean for Us Today?

1. Churches Still Need Real Leadership

  • Not perfect people, but trustworthy ones.

Paul emphasized the importance of church leaders being above reproach, demonstrating integrity, and being faithful in their personal and public lives. This demand for trustworthiness ensures that leaders can guide their congregations effectively and serve as role models. Today, this principle remains crucial, as trustworthy leaders foster an environment of respect and transparency, building a strong foundation for community and spiritual growth.

  • Doctrine matters. If a church ignores truth, it becomes a social club, not the body of Christ.

Paul reminds Titus of the importance of doctrine because it anchors the church in biblical truth, guiding its teachings, practices, and values. Without sound doctrine, the church risks losing its spiritual direction and purpose, potentially prioritizing social activities over spiritual growth. By adhering to true doctrine, the church maintains its focus on Christ's teachings, ensuring that its mission remains aligned with the gospel.

2. Faith Must Affect Daily Life

  • For workers: Do your job well—even if your boss sucks. (Titus 2:9-10)

Paul's instruction to workers highlights the significance of embodying faith in everyday actions and attitudes. Regardless of the challenges posed by difficult circumstances or leadership, maintaining a strong work ethic demonstrates commitment to Christian values and serves as a testament to one's faith. By doing their jobs diligently, workers can reflect God's character, positively influencing their workplace and bearing witness to the transformative power of faith.

  • For women/men: Godly character > cultural trends. 

In a world often swayed by fleeting cultural trends, Paul emphasizes the enduring importance of godly character for both women and men. By prioritizing virtues such as humility, kindness, and integrity over societal pressures, individuals can lead lives that truly reflect their Christian faith. This steadfast commitment not only strengthens personal spiritual growth but also sets an example for others, demonstrating that true fulfillment comes from living according to God's principles rather than conforming to the shifting standards of the world.

  • For everyone: The Gospel isn’t just a Sunday thing.

Faith should permeate every aspect of our lives, guiding our decisions and interactions throughout the week. By living out the Gospel daily, individuals can integrate their beliefs into their work, relationships, and communities, showcasing the transformative impact of faith beyond the confines of a church service. This continuous practice of faith not only deepens one's spiritual journey but also inspires others to explore and embrace the teachings of Christ in their own lives.

3. Grace Isn’t an Excuse for Laziness

  • Some in Crete (and today!) twisted grace into: "God forgives, so I can do whatever."

This misunderstanding leads to a lack of accountability and spiritual stagnation, as individuals may neglect their responsibilities and spiritual disciplines. Such a mindset undermines the transformative power of grace, reducing it to a mere loophole rather than a catalyst for genuine growth and change. Ultimately, this misinterpretation can damage personal faith and weaken the collective witness of the church, as the true essence of grace is to empower believers to live righteously, not to excuse complacency.

  • Paul’s response? Grace empowers holiness (Titus 2:11-14).

Paul teaches that grace is not simply a license to live without regard for righteousness but a divine gift that empowers believers to pursue holiness. In Titus 2:11-14, he explains that the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation and instructing believers to deny ungodliness and worldly desires. This grace encourages them to live sensibly, righteously, and godly in the present age, eagerly anticipating the return of Christ and reflecting His purity and purpose in their daily lives.


IV. Paul’s Heart in Action: What We Learn About Leadership

1. He Delegated (Because He Trusted Titus)

  • Paul didn’t micromanage—he empowered. Real leaders raise up others.

Delegation is crucial in leadership as it fosters growth, trust, and skill development within a team. When leaders fail to delegate, they risk burnout, stifling innovation, and creating a dependency that undermines the team's potential. By empowering others, leaders not only enhance productivity but also cultivate future leaders who can contribute to the organization's success.

2. He Balanced Truth & Love

  • Firm on doctrine (Titus 1:9-11)

Balancing truth and love is essential for effective leadership and community building within the church. Being firm on doctrine ensures that the foundational beliefs remain strong and unaltered, providing a clear and consistent message. However, coupling this firmness with love and compassion fosters an environment of understanding and acceptance, where individuals feel valued and supported in their spiritual journeys.

  • Compassionate in pastoring (Titus 3:2, "be gentle… show perfect courtesy")

Paul exemplified compassionate pastoring by urging Titus to embody gentleness and courtesy in his interactions with others. This approach not only reinforced the importance of treating people with respect and kindness but also set a standard for leadership that prioritizes empathy and humility. By teaching Titus to practice these values, Paul ensured that the church community was nurtured with patience and understanding, creating a welcoming atmosphere for all believers.

3. He Never Lost Sight of the Gospel

  • Even in a letter about order, Paul keeps circling back to Jesus’ sacrifice and the Spirit’s power. 

Paul's unwavering focus on the gospel message underscores its centrality to all aspects of church life and leadership. By continually referencing Jesus' sacrifice and the empowering presence of the Spirit, Paul reminds Titus and the church of their ultimate purpose and foundation. This emphasis not only reinforces the core tenets of faith but also inspires believers to live out their calling with renewed passion and dedication.


Conclusion: A Church That Actually Looks Like Jesus

Titus isn’t about control—it’s about a community transformed by the Gospel. The letter emphasizes the importance of sound doctrine and good works, encouraging believers to live out their faith authentically. It focuses on fostering relationships and building a supportive community where individuals are guided by love and grace rather than rigid rules. Through these teachings, the Gospel inspires genuine change in people's lives, leading to a harmonious and godly church environment.

Paul’s epistle to Titus challenges believers to consider their roles in fostering a community shaped by the Gospel. The question, “So what now?” serves as a call to action, urging reflection on how the teachings of Titus apply to individual lives and the church as a whole. So, what now?

  • If you’re a leader: Are you modeling godliness?

Leadership in the church, as outlined in Titus, is not about authority but about exemplifying Christ-like character. Titus 1:7-9 emphasizes that leaders should be blameless, hospitable, and lovers of good, setting an example for others to follow. Leaders are called to live lives that reflect sound doctrine, ensuring their actions align with their teachings to inspire authenticity and trust within the church.

  • If you’re part of a church: Are you contributing to order or chaos?

Titus stresses the importance of maintaining order within the church community. In Titus 1:10-11, Paul warns against divisive individuals who disrupt unity. Believers are encouraged to contribute to harmony by living out their faith through good works and mutual respect, as seen in Titus 2:1-10. Each member plays a vital role in upholding the church’s mission to reflect Christ’s love and grace.

  • If you’re just trying to follow Jesus: Does your life reflect His grace?

For those seeking to follow Jesus, Titus highlights the transformative power of grace. Titus 2:11-14 teaches that God’s grace not only saves but also instructs believers to live upright and godly lives. This means reflecting Christ’s grace in everyday actions, showing kindness, and pursuing righteousness in a way that points others to Him. Paul’s words remind us that the church’s impact depends on its commitment to truth, godly leadership, and grace-filled living. These principles are timeless, calling every believer to action in their unique context.

Paul’s words to Titus weren’t just for Crete—they’re for us. Because a church that’s grounded in truth, led well, and living out grace? That’s how the world sees Jesus. Paul's words to Titus transcend their historical context because the challenges of leadership, community, and personal faith remain relevant today. Just as the early church in Crete needed guidance in embodying Christ's teachings, modern believers face similar struggles in a rapidly changing world. By adhering to the timeless principles of truth, godly leadership, and grace-filled living, the church can continue to be a beacon of hope and love, showing others the transformative power of Jesus.

Next up: Philemon—where a runaway slave, a forgiving master, and the Gospel collide.

Drop a comment: Which part of Titus hits home for you? Leadership struggles? Grace vs. works? Let’s talk!

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